My own personal little ball of family drama decided to drop yesterday afternoon. A certain someone was recently...indisposed, but found themselves released from prior constraints yesterday and has announced they will be attending my wedding...yay? Now in the interest of full disclosure I did in fact send this person an invitation (ONLY at the vehement request of my dearly beloved aunt), however when I sent this invitation there was NO question in my mind as to this person actually attending. As far as I was concerned Unicorns would be making a flight to Pluto the once epic planet and CNN would be airing the live coverage prior to this person actually coming to the wedding.
Well Unicorns... your big day is here!
Horrible Paint Art by Miss Ticket
After an evening of contemplation... and maybe a little bit of wine. I've decided to just not worry about it. Honestly I've got enough stuff on my hands to deal with that constantly worrying over one individual's potential actions on our special day is not worth the effort. Believe me... in that one evening I managed to come up with dozens of potential awful scenarios, but fact of the matter is it's out of my hands. Whereas the matter of final payments, tip envelopes, transportation and a must take shots list for our photographers are very real, very immediate concerns that I do in fact NEED to be worrying about.
Now I may have given up worrying in the sense that I'm not allowing myself to replay horrible scenarios in my head of what MIGHT happen, but lets not pretend here. I'm crossing every bodily appendage and praying like there's no tomorrow that everything goes smoothly with this situation. Has family drama popped up in close proximity to your wedding plans? How did you handle it?

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